Friday, August 27, 2010

Sacred time

It's been nine months since the Bug left us. I don't know why that is significant, except that I carried her for nine months before she was born, so this feels like some sort of weird symmetry.

It really doesn't make me sad. It is just a time to mark, I guess.

Tomorrow, we make our annual pilgrimage to the county fair at dawn. Mr. Bean and I have done this every year for the last 23 years. Breakfast at the Grange cafeteria (which isn't actually run by the Grange anymore, but it's still the same in my mind), a leisurely stroll through the barns, the sound of roosters crowing, horses pawing to get out for a bit of exercise, 4-H kids sweeping and mucking and watering, the smell of fresh hay, announcements of upcoming auctions. There is a peace to the fair before the midway opens and the music starts.

We will miss the Bug tomorrow. We will miss her taking pictures in the chicken barn. We will miss her talking to the goats. I will have to avoid the bunny barn this year, and perhaps every year from now on.

We will still go to the fair, however, because it is our time together. Sacred time that we do not violate. I had to back out on a weekend with friends, rather more at the last minute than I should have, because I realized too late that it was our fair weekend and it would get in the way of this time together.

Tomorrow night? The combine demolition derby.

Yes, I will repeat that.

Combine. Demolition. Derby.

Oh yeah. There's a post in there, I think.


Alison said...

I don't know what to say. I just wanted you to know that I was here. xo

BillnDollarBaby said...

I want to go to the Combine Demolition Derby.

And I want to tell you you're awesome. Thanks for sharing.

winter said...


Combine Demolition Derby = AWESOME. Tell me you there will be pictures and video!

gaties = St. Peter's groupies.

perlymonstr said...

I am happy we got to spend some time together at the fair, you both are very special.

Anonymous said...

love you B. meow

Justine's HouseWreck said...

There certainly is a post in there. Thanks for taking us along with you, even if it's just to put an arm around your shoulders, virtually...