tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post3603677289505803702..comments2023-04-03T08:35:30.995-04:00Comments on All Frayed Edges and Shades of Red: Perspective 4: Your Blues Ain't Like MineBeaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05124824392519962306noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-40716965225275215412010-08-01T19:00:17.380-04:002010-08-01T19:00:17.380-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.jovenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04906560225714328197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-9530303491435041962010-07-08T23:23:01.247-04:002010-07-08T23:23:01.247-04:00I just lost my daughter after a two year and two m...I just lost my daughter after a two year and two month battle with brain cancer and people are saying that same thing to me, I tell them close to what you said here but I wonder why people feel bad for not having suffered as bad as me. I would not wish that on anyone! Thank you for the eloquent way that you put it hereEvanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-58773678611025359752010-06-18T13:49:01.126-04:002010-06-18T13:49:01.126-04:00Wow! comforting yet profound words. i never look...Wow! comforting yet profound words. i never looked at loss and pain this way. people do have a tendency to compare their grief. i still mourn my Mother's death after a yr & a half. she and i were very close and i miss her terribly. thank you for your compassionate spirit....Betsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02146961679924901127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-86770677774355926052010-06-16T13:21:45.476-04:002010-06-16T13:21:45.476-04:00After my husband died, I remember how grateful I w...After my husband died, I remember how grateful I was when a friend called me for comfort when she broke up with her significant other. She apologized since this was "nothing after what you went through." But I was glad to have a chance to help someone else instead of focusing on my own loss.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18207087497823690370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-9168787366856281832010-06-13T15:10:15.651-04:002010-06-13T15:10:15.651-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.jovenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04906560225714328197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-87669176784118629852010-06-08T09:07:07.202-04:002010-06-08T09:07:07.202-04:00You're a loving soul, Beth.You're a loving soul, Beth.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208615970286164894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-14125330305027883212010-06-07T07:22:01.430-04:002010-06-07T07:22:01.430-04:00oh Beth, I completely know what you mean here. I&...oh Beth, I completely know what you mean here. I've gotten so much of this recently. There's no competition when it comes to pain.<br />Love you.<br />SAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-58517250725531761422010-06-04T18:53:13.572-04:002010-06-04T18:53:13.572-04:00Ah. I see my reputation has preceded me. The numbe...Ah. I see my reputation has preceded me. The number of times people would say to me "compared to what you went through" - well, it's just not a way to measure. We all have our own stories of pain and triumph and there is no scale that can measure the one against the other. Beautifully written, as usual, my friend. Cannot wait to see you in a month or so.<br /><br /><br /><br />wistionsbhdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14745845682132788731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-48574300457014767432010-06-04T08:04:49.743-04:002010-06-04T08:04:49.743-04:00The fabulous BHD taught me this lesson a few years...The fabulous BHD taught me this lesson a few years ago. It's served me well.Alisonhttp://alithinks.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31259652.post-14592533802819725872010-06-04T08:01:11.120-04:002010-06-04T08:01:11.120-04:00You have one of the most beautiful hearts of anyon...You have one of the most beautiful hearts of anyone I've ever met.Ellie Creek Ellishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10808242892677980106noreply@blogger.com